There are three great ways to get any woman in the mood for romance; you can stimulate her body, stimulate her mind, or stimulate her heart. And if you can pull off all three with one amazing gift (or a combination of gifts and gestures) then you should have no trouble letting her know just how much you love her. So if you’re looking for a few good ways to let the special lady in your life know that you only have eyes for, here are some gifts that are sure to spark the flames of romance this Valentine’s Day.
A red, red rose
This flower is a hallmark of the holiday and a time-honored symbol of romantic love. Unfortunately, February 14th is the absolute worst day of the year to go looking for roses of any variety. So instead of placing orders ahead of time and spending crazy money for a dozen long stems, consider purchasing a potted rose bush and planting it in her garden so that every time she looks at it she thinks of you. And if roses aren’t her favorite, present her with an orchid, a lily, or whatever she prefers in a pretty pot with a bow.
A special meal
Your valentine might expect to be wined and dined on this romantic day, but that doesn’t mean you have to make a reservation a month in advance and spend beaucoup bucks on her favorite restaurant. Instead, try your hand at creating culinary delights on your own. She’ll probably appreciate a candlelit evening at home (without the hustle and bustle of going out on this busy night) and there’s nothing better than a fabulous home-cooked meal – except maybe a fabulous homemade dessert.
An ode
There are few women who wouldn’t go weak at the knees over a poem penned exclusively for them. So if you’re something of a wordsmith, don’t hesitate to create a lofty poem comparing her to the very air you breathe in terms of importance in your life. Or if you don’t happen to be particularly capable of finding your own words to express how you feel, find someone else’s. Reciting a famous love poem by Shakespeare, Browning, Frost, or Poe (just to name a few) will surely impress your lady love.
A mix tape
How long has it been since you’ve put together a medley of songs to let your true love know how much she means to you? If you still call it a mix tape, it’s probably been too long. These days it’s a lot easier to create a playlist for your iPod. And if you take a few dance classes to go with your selection, you can really sweep her off her feet.
A little TLC
Every woman loves to feel pampered, so prepare a spa night for the special lady in your life. Draw a hot bath full of scented bubbles and give her a mud mask and a shampoo while she luxuriates. Then scatter some rose petals on the bed and show her how handy you can be by offering her a Swedish massage. Then end the evening of adoration by painting her nails while she sips champagne. This kind of physical attention will show her how totally devoted and in love you are.
Sarah Danielson is a contributing writer for www.icingonthering.com, one of the premier jewelry stores Los Angeles where you can find a large assortment of loose diamonds and engagement rings settings.
